OVERCOME FEAR OF SPEAKING

AFRAID TO SPEAK

How did I overcome the fear of speaking before people?

Practice. I learned how to speak before others when pushed lovingly by my husband (and the Lord) to fill positions in the church.

My husband entered the ministry 14 years after we were married. While he attended Bible College, I took classes offered for the wives and piano lessons, too. (Training is a big help.)

Although I’m an extrovert, I struggle with shyness. (Well I did at one time and still do if I’m in unfamiliar territory.)

Ministry in small churches is a great way to overcome a lot of self. Forced to lead the music, play the piano and direct the choir—in one church I did all three—taught me to care for others and forget about self.

At one point, I asked a piano instructor, “How do I get over being so nervous. I’m sure I’ll blunder.” He answered, “Why do you think people come to listen for your mistakes? Don’t focus on yourself. Your congregation (audience) is your best friend. Your champion.”

This last fall (a hundred years after those church settings), I spoke in several churches. I felt so inadequate, positive I had nothing new to say. My husband wisely said, “There may be only one person, but that one person has never heard your message before.”

More than once I heard, “The Lord sent you here for me.” I may not be the best speaker, but I’m the one the Lord sent to do that job.

Step outside your comfort zone this week and try something for the sake of others. Then watch God open the hearts of others to receive the message God has placed on your heart.

Have a beautiful week, Kat