Speaking of Speaking

How did you get over the fear of speaking before people? That question reminds me of years ago when husband would ask, “How do you get to Carnegie Hall?” He’d wait a bit and then say, “Practice baby. Practice.” That’s the way to be the best, speaker, too. Keep going.

I became a speaker when pushed lovingly by my husband, and the Lord, to fill positions in the church. Gary decided to enter the ministry 12 years after we were married. While he attended Bible College, I completed classes offered to the wives and piano lessons, too. I am an extrovert, but unlike most, I struggle with shyness. (Well I did at one time and still do if I’m in unfamiliar territory.)

Ministry in small churches is a great way to overcome a lot of self. Forced to lead the music, play the piano and direct the choir—in one church I did all three—teaches you to care for others and forget self.

At one point, I asked a piano instructor, “How do I get over being so nervous. I’m sure I’ll blunder.”

He answered, “Why do you think people come to listen for your mistakes? Don’t focus on yourself. Your congregation (audience) is your best friend. Your champion.”

This last fall (a hundred years after those church settings), I spoke in several churches. I felt so inadequate, positive I had nothing new to say. My husband wisely said, “There may be only one person, but that one person has never heard your message before.”

After each speaking engagement I heard, “The Lord sent you here for me.” I may not be the best speaker, but I’m the one the Lord sent to do that job.

Kat still in Omaha